Melissa Plantz

About Melissa Plantz

Melissa Plantz is a Christian author and freelance writer. She spent twenty years in the pharmacy industry and has specialized in faith, fitness, nutrition, geriatrics, and mental health since 2015. She writes from the beautiful Lake Marion area in South Carolina.

Using Fitness to Battle Stress Eating

By |June 28th, 2023|Eating Disorders, Featured, Individual Counseling, Personal Development|

If you struggle with stress eating, you probably have a set of tools to get through a craving or urge. For example, you might plan your meals, have an accountability partner, weigh regularly, and keep fresh fruits and veggies at your disposal. But how necessary is fitness to your battle with stress eating? Whether you think of it as fitness, exercising, working out, or training, physical movement can help you get past food temptations, reign in your appetite, and crush stress eating. Why we love endorphins. Your body releases endorphins when you exercise, even at a moderate pace, for ten or fifteen minutes. Endorphins affect your mood and appetite. The neurotransmitter dopamine leaves you feeling happy and on top of the world. It is what runners refer to as a “runner’s high.” Leptin decreases your appetite so that you feel less hungry and balances out the ghrelin levels, the hormone that increases appetite. You may find that after training consistently for a while, your anxiety and depression lift thanks to endorphins. Our bodies were created to withstand physical stressors to build strength, so physical movement and training are beneficial and healing to the body. How to get started with fitness. Before you start any fitness regimen, you should get clearance from your primary physician. This will rule out any medical issues and provide guidelines for you to follow. Next, you will want to take note of your weight and measurements. You will also want a baseline level of performance. For example, can you walk a mile? How long does it take you to walk one mile? How many pushups can you do? Can you do a pullup? Try to touch your toes and record how far your reach is from your toes. These are performance assessments that you can [...]

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Family Issues in a Blended Family

By |March 23rd, 2023|Family Counseling, Featured, Relationship Issues|

The day is finally here! You are remarrying, and shortly, the love of your life will become your spouse for the rest of your life. The future looks bright. The two of you are perfect for each other, and you cannot imagine being with anyone else. It can only go up from here, right? But somewhere in your mind, you wonder if your new blended family will work. You both have children from previous relationships (which means both may have ex-spouses). It worked for the fictitious Brady Bunch, but will it work for you? Don’t wait until your wedding day to prepare for a blended family. Learn about the common family issues blended families face and work together as parents to make the transition smoother. This is your new family, and you can make it full of love and understanding. Blended family issues of concern Typically, it may take a blended family two years to become accustomed to the changes, the stepparent, and the family dynamic. In addition, it takes time to bond with stepchildren and to grow their trust. Even before you say, “I do,” you may already be experiencing family issues in how your significant other manage your children and their own, how your children respond to their future step-siblings, and how your exes are handling your relationship. Do any of these family issues sound familiar? When you don’t get along with the ex Things did not work out between you and your former spouse, which is why you are no longer married. Maybe you still cannot agree on topics regarding the children. Or, your ex is possessive and does not like your new spouse. It could be that your significant other’s ex is jealous and dislikes you from the get-go and seems to have made it their [...]

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Helpful Stress Management Activities

By |January 5th, 2023|Featured, Individual Counseling, Personal Development, Spiritual Development|

Life is hectic: responsibilities, bills, debts, family, work. Most people do their best but find little time to let go. Their minds are constantly spinning with problems and worries. When this happens, we must take control by engaging in stress management activities. The Trouble with Chronic Stress Chronic stress can lead to many problems, such as inflammation, high blood pressure, rapid heart rate, higher levels of cortisol, insomnia, changes in eating and sleeping patterns, anxiety, panic attacks, and depression. Stress affects you physically, mentally, and emotionally. When the body stays in a constant state of distress, it can weaken the heart and blood vessels, leading to heart attack or stroke. As your eating patterns change, you are at risk for eating disorders, diabetes, and obesity. You may notice joint pain, body aches, and headaches. Your mental health also takes a hit with chronic stress. You can develop a mental health condition such as: Anxiety Depression Panic disorder Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder Binge-eating, anorexia, or bulimia Poor body image Social anxiety Night terrors Trouble with concentration Dementia or Alzheimer’s Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder This is why practicing stress management activities is crucial to your health. Do not think of these activities as selfish or things you do when you want to feel luxurious. These are not luxury tasks, but necessities. You need to stay healthy. God took a day off to rest and commanded us to rest at least once a week. By the seventh day God had finished the work he had been doing; so on the seventh day he rested from all his work. – Genesis 2:2, NIV Stress Management Activities You Can Do Now It does not take a great deal of time or money to destress. You can incorporate little stress management activities into your day and week. Most [...]

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